10 Shocking Facts About WAYS IN WHICH PORN RUINS YOUR MARRIAGE.

“68% of divorces involve one party meeting a new partner over the internet, with 56% of divorces involving one party having an obsessive interest in “pornographic websites”

No, we are not trying to preach right and wrong here.We are so used to being fed sexual images by our digital media that watching porn is seen as just a “normal” thing that all consumers of media will see.

Porn sounds good;looks good, but it is evident that everything which looks tempting isn’t always good. Grass is greener on the other side, they said.

Here are few negative impacts which are caused by consumption of porn:

1.  Porn sabotages Trust

“Porn is one of the easiest ways to completely break trust, because it violates the intimacy of the love relationship”
Marriages are considered most sacred relationships. Trust is what makes a marriage work. Marriages are built on trust. Every woman wants that her husband want to be intimate with her only. If a woman comes to know that her husband is seeking solace in porn,instead of her arms, she would hate him as well as herself. It is equivalent to bringing a mistress in your house in your wife’s presence.Irrespective of how a man feels about porn, his partner is going to hate it.

2.  Unhealthy Comparisons

“When you learned of your husband’s sexual immorality, you most likely experienced a flood of emotions” 
Believe it or not, but porn destroys your belief in your partner. Whenever you want to be comforted by porn, you unwittingly let a third party create a rift between you and your spouse.You will start comparing those beautiful models with her. It will start frustrating you slowly and steadily because you do not find your partner that attractive.You will stop being grateful for your partner’s love and care, and instead focus on what she is not.

3.  It ruins your spouse’s spirit

“Adultery is not just having sex outside of marriage, it also includes imagining having sex with someone other than your spouse”
Your partner would be reluctant to get naked in front of you once they know your love for pornography. You might not say it but they would feel that you are comparing their performance to porn models.

4.  It results in unreal expectations

“The “fantasy women” in pornography are portrayed as unrealistically sexually attractive, often because of plastic surgery, stage makeup and digital editing”
People mistake porn as the fundamental high of sex. They start considering it as the ultimate goal which they have to achieve.However, they forget that it is not reality! Neither those actors are having spiking sex drives nor do they have “perfect bodies”.They do not have sex for one hour straight either! There are very few actors who come in this field out of their own will.

5.  Porn violates intimacy

“Once intimacy in a marriage is cheapened, the addicted partner can begin looking for other ways to satisfy their sexual fantasy”
A marriage is doomed when husband decides to watch porn instead of finding ways to please his wife.Porn creates a wall between two trusting individuals.When one allows other source to guide their sexual life, it creates lack of intimacy and trust.

6.  Porn is addictive

“Watching porn decreases sexual pleasure”
Porn is addictive! It can be verified by those who have been through this.An addiction never did any good to someone’s life. Once you start preferring this over your love for partner, your love and faith is bound to crumble.

7.  Porn Never Satisfies

“Pornography can have devastating effects on both the person viewing it and those around him or her”
Porn is like a drug which needs to be taken more and more in order to retain the excitement and pleasure. It will make you feel that your current sex life is boring, and that you need something “different”. You might like that “different” sex but it will start frustrating you if your partner is unable to live up to your expectations.

8.  Porn fuels negative fantasies

“Porn can deceive viewers into looking at every person as though they were an object available to them”
Porn never satisfies a person. A person would start imagining all sorts of weird fantasies in order to retain that “high”. Since imagining itself isn’t satisfying,it almost always leads to something which shouldn’t have been done at the first place. Porn websites feature special columns like “sex with children”, incest, fetish, teen porn, rape porn, bondage and BDSM. This might fuel sick fantasies in the mind of porn addicts.
“Sex Addiction. For most people, pornography is a quick and convenient route to sexual pleasure”

We shouldn’t be surprised when news about incest, rapes and sodomy features in crime stories. Criminals have often confessed that they raped and killed to enliven their fantasies inspired from extreme porn.

If you are dealing with pornography addiction you need to seek help immediately.

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